Magic words that can change your life.
Affirmations are simply any positive or negative statements that we make, as we go through life. They can be natural, automatic statements or statements made on purpose.
Does this include all words and statements that we make during our lifetime? Yes and No.
Statements related to some aspect of the past, present or future are indeed so considered. The other utterances, which we shall call as 'miscellaneous statements', need not be so considered.
For example. 'Let's go for a walk', 'How are you?', 'I may be late for dinner tonight' are 'miscellaneous statements'. Examples of affirmations are given below.
Consider the following statements:
These are natural statements that bring out our true feelings as we go through life. These are affirmations.
Now consider the following statements:
These are statements of intent. Through these statements we express our desire of how we want our life to be. These are also affirmations.
We are going to concentrate on the second type, that is the statements that spell out our desired future - statements that can change our life for the better.
The wonderful thing about these affirmations is that the more we use them, the more our life starts resembling them.
The principal behind the working of these affirmations is similar to that of drops of water falling on a rock.
A few drops will not make any difference to the rock but if the drops fall continuously, then, over a period of time, the rock will be worn out.
This quote succinctly explains the working of affirmations. If we want to change our life for the better, we have to hold different thoughts in our mind, different than the ones that normally occupy our mind.
Every person has a set of different thoughts that occupies his mind on a regular basis.
Our thoughts are determined by our social milieu, our family upbringing, our education, our experiences in life and a variety of other factors.
A person leading an average life will have a different set of thoughts than a person successful in some field.
If the average person wants to be successful, he has to think like the successful person.
If a poor person wants to be rich and prosperous, he has to think like a rich and prosperous person.
How does one change one’s life by changing one’s thoughts?
There are many answers to this question.
When we are in a certain situation, we think in a certain way. As a result, certain neural pathways are formed in the brain.
Later, when we find ourselves in a similar situation, because of the already formed neural pathways, we think similar thoughts and that results in the same old actions. Hence, nothing new comes out of the situation.
When we deliberately change our thoughts over a period of time, new neural pathways are formed to correspond to these new thoughts.
Thus, when a particular situation arises, the brain does not automatically think the old thoughts.
Rather, a new thought is produced in response to the same old situation. New actions are now explored. A new and different outcome is now a distinct possibility.
Another way of looking at it is this way.
The subconscious mind cannot differentiate between real and imaginary situations.
If we feed the subconscious mind with imaginary situations depicting our desired reality, then after some time the subconscious mind starts believing it.
When the belief becomes strong enough, it tries to match the new inner scenario with the outer reality of life.
As these two are different, and as it cannot change the new inner scenario because we are strengthening it daily by affirmations or visualization or in some other way, it now tries to change the outer reality to match the inner one.
We thus start having new experiences, meeting new people, spotting new opportunities which we earlier used to miss and so on. Slowly, life starts changing for the better.
Whatever be the explanation, it is a fact that a change in thinking changes life. And a change in thinking can be easily brought about by using affirmations.
Thus, if we make positive statements and repeat them over and over, they are going to affect our life positively. Similarly, negative statements will affect our life negatively.
We go through our life according to our beliefs. For example, we know it and hence it is our belief that if we touch anything hot, it will cause burns. Hence we don't touch hot things with our bare hands.
However, the belief system of small children is not yet formed.
Hence, they do not know the difference between hot and cold and are likely to touch hot things with their bare hands. (hence we have to take greater care of small children than grown up children).
If they get their hand burned, or alternatively if they are told repeatedly that touching hot things is bad, then their belief system forms and they will avoid touching hot things.
This is an example of affirmations at work.
All our beliefs are stored in the subconscious mind.
So, if you find that you are unable to make lots of money, or, you make money but are unable to hold on to it, it may be due to such beliefs held in the subconscious mind as "I do not deserve to be prosperous" or "Money is bad", etc.
In order to change our beliefs, we have to operate at the level of the subconscious mind.
The subconscious mind is like your computer. It takes an input, processes it and gives an output. It does not think by itself. It does not distinguish between good and bad.
If we put garbage in a computer we get garbage as output. (Hence the phrase GIGO which means Garbage In, Garbage Out). That is why your mother told you to keep good company and avoid bad company.
In good company you hear good and positive thoughts, see good actions being performed, good deeds being done.
By constantly being in good company these good things get impressed on your subconscious mind and, in turn, your thoughts and actions also turn out to be good.
That is why Napoleon Hill says, "If you want to be rich, be in the company of rich men".
Also, it is a known fact that your income tends to be the average of the incomes of the ten people with whom you associate yourself the most.
So, in order to change your beliefs and create a new reality, you have to bombard your subconscious mind with thoughts of your desire.
However, these thoughts have to be worded carefully, otherwise the results may not be as expected.
Hence, there are certain dos and don'ts to be followed for optimum use of affirmations. These are listed below :
It seems the subconscious mind is incapable of dealing in negatives. So, if you say "I am not fat", then when the statement reaches the subconscious mind, the term "not" is ignored and it becomes "I am fat"!
Actually, what happens is that the law of 'focus and growth' applies. As per this law,whatever we focus on, grows.
Hence, when we say 'I am not fat', the focus is on 'fat'. So the subconscious mind will concentrate on making you or on keeping you fat. It is better to say "I am fit and slim' or 'I weigh ____ pounds/kgs'.
I first learned about the mirror technique in the self help classic The Magic Of Believing by Claude Bristol. It has been referred to by other great authors too, one of my favorites being Louise L. Hay in her best selling book "You Can Heal Your Life". The technique is as follows:
However, you have to do this on a very regular basis. In fact, Louise L. Hay says in her above mentioned book that when you are in your house and whenever you pass in front of your mirror, stop and repeat the statements a few times. This is a very powerful technique. I can personally vouch for the efficacy of this technique.
This is a fairly well known technique. Take a 3” x 5” card that can snugly fit into your shirt pocket or wallet. Write your affirmation in bold letters. View your affirmation as frequently as possible.
Wherever you are, you can quickly take out your card, read it and keep it back. But show it to no one. Declaring your intentions to the world seems to dissipate the energy that you put behind it.
Try to view the card at least 10-12 times a day, the more the better. The frequent bombardment of the subconscious mind with your affirmation will bring about the desired results.
Here is a list of affirmations which have been going around for decades and have produced wonderful results for many people.
I have prepared some sample affirimations on a variety of topics. Please remember that you may also prepare your own on similar lines.
Also, it is a good idea to combine one or more of them. Whenever possible, say them in front of a mirror.
Also remember that you are trying to reprogram a lifetime of thinking habits. This takes time.
If you are repeating the statements about a hundred times a day in front of a mirror, allow a period of at least six months to elapse before expecting results.
Combining creative visualization and affirmations can lead to speedy results.
Successful people have used these positive statements regularly. Read here what they have to say about their experiences.
One can have affirmations on any topic. Simply follow the rules given above. Some examples are given below..
As the saying goes, "the proof of the pudding is in the eating". Stories of success with affirmations are proof that they work.
Would You Like To Say Something?
Some of us are already saying affirmations. Maybe some of you have had wonderful experiences from them. Why not tell the world about your positive experiences?
Or, if it is not too personal, you can share your affirmations. You can be sure that somebody out there will benefit from your contribution.
I started this site after my fantastic experiences with affirmations, visualizations and hypnosis. You can read some of them in the 'About Me' page. Many of my readers were encouraged to take up affirmations, creative visualization, hypnosis and other techniques after reading them. Many have reported success. It gives me a sense of fulfillment to know that I have been able to make a difference to so many people.
You too can have that same sense of fulfillment. Just write down your experiences or success story. Or simply your very own affirmation. Wishing You All The Best!
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Hi. Thanks for taking time to read my experience with affirmations. I am not a person whom one calls an easy believer. I fought my way to prove that they …
Affirmations - Readers' Contribution
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I like this site, thank you for sharing this information with us. I know the affirmations through the book of Louise Hay, “You Can Heal Your Life” but you add some different aspects in it and I am enjoying the new path to think.
What a wonderful website, I found almost everything that I was looking for here. Keep up the good work. I will definitely write my success story here because I am going to start using the affirmations today :).
~ Deepti Rupani
What a nice site! Thanks for the affirmations. I am sure they will be a great help to helping me succeed.
This is the best website I have found on the internet pertaining to hypnosis and ways to reprogram the subconscious mind. I have searched and read a lot. Every other site has a catch and wants to sell you something. Thanks for all the simple, easy to read, applicable and resourceful information.
Dear Sir/Madame, I think your site and its content are very wonderful and motivating to inspire people to keep thinking positively. I found the mirror technique a new one but also sounds very effective, although that technique you say takes 6 months to transform...my question was are there any techniques from your experience that works in 2 weeks to a month? The reason I ask is so that I can attract a job in Fashion my way but I dont want it to be 6 months till I get one. Regards.
Hi! Thank you for this website. This looks like a SBI site. Mine is too :) and I love the way SBI trains us. Thank you for all the information on affirmations. It is very inspiring as are your stories about your successes using them. I look forward to staying in touch with you. I have been listening to canned affirmations for a year now, but will take your advice and start making my own. Best regards.
~ Ramapati Singhania
Excellent web site. Thanks for the list of affirmations. I have taken some of them. I'd appreciate some advice. I've looked at web sites that offer/sell subliminal use of affirmations. I am tempted down this route but am wary of what unwelcome material may be included in this type of material. Have you any experience of this and advice for me? Thanks.