Knowing low self esteem signs is important because then we can identify low self esteem and take steps to improve it. Without knowing there can be no identifying, without identifying there can be no curing.
All humans radiate thoughts and feelings. These are ‘caught’ or ‘trapped’ by people at large.
People and/or circumstances of a similar nature are then attracted to us. Everything in life is ruled by this law – ‘like attracts like’ or ‘birds of the same feather flock together’. This is the law of attraction.
That is also why it is said that we don't attract into our life what we want. We attract what we are.
That is also the reason why we should be happy now even if the circumstances are not happy. Because if we are happy now, that will attract happiness in the future.
Famous author Louise L. Hay gives an excellent story of how her low self esteem as a child attracted misery, in her best selling book ‘You Can Heal Your Life’.
One day in her school, there was a party and pieces of cake were being distributed. She was of course, standing last (due to her low self esteem). Some students from well-to-do families got 2-3 pieces of cake. By the time the teacher reached Louise, there was no cake left.
It was as if to reinforce her belief that she did not ‘deserve’ that cake. Low self esteem at work!
Criminologists tell us that criminals who abuse children are precisely able to pick their victims from a group of children.
In almost all cases, these victims have a low self esteem and a majority of them have a history of abuse. They ‘radiate’ their helplessness which is caught by the criminal-in-waiting.
Low self esteem signs are easy to spot. The following list is only indicative, not exhaustive.
Lack of Self Confidence
Another sign of lack of confidence is bragging. Such people will talk no end about their non existent achievements. It is their way of proving to themselves of their superiority over others, because in real life they lack the confidence of doing better than others.
Absence of Assertiveness
At the other extreme, such people are overly aggressive. It is mainly a show off of false strength. They will exhibit this aggression mainly in front of other timid people.
Pretending What They Are Not
Nonconformist and Anti Social Behaviour
Lack of Generosity
Not all these low self esteem symptoms are necessarily present in a person having low self esteem. Some may be present in more or less degree while some may be absent. What is important is that we be able to note the low self esteem signs so that we are able to take necessary measures to improve them.
Self Esteem is too important a topic to be left alone. Work on it in a variety of ways. One way is through hypnosis. As you are aware, hypnosis is a powerful way of influencing the subconscious. If you can manage to listen to hypnosis CDs or MP3, once in the morning and once at night before sleeping, it will do wonders to your progress.
If you search in Google, you will find literally thousands of sites offering hypnosis CDs or MP3 downloads on a variety of topics. It is very easy to get confused about choosing the hypnosis website that is best for you. After all, you cannot test the CDs or MP3s from many sites and then decide. I have done that job for you.
Being a trained hypnotist myself, it was easy for me to check out the best
hypnosis CDs and MP3s in the market. So here goes. I found the following CDs
and MP3 downloads on various issues of self esteem as one of the best on the internet.
Click on each link below to learn more about the download and then decide whether you would like to buy them. What is wonderful about them is that they come with a 90-day money-back guarantee! Go get them.